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Life continues to feel difficult.<\/p>\n<p>What more do you need to fix? You wonder.<\/p>\n<p>Which forces are working against you? Is it witchcraft or ancestral curses? Are there unforgiven sins blocking your path? How do you get God&#8217;s attention to lift the weight you\u2019re carrying?<\/p>\n<p>In the midst of this perplexity, I had a shift in perspective today, seeing challenges and struggles through a new lens. Thanks to Peter Yonga for illuminating this truth so clearly.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes, you\u2019ll face hardships that seem inexplicable because you&#8217;re going through a pruning process\u2014one designed to refine, sanctify, and strengthen you. Only God can allow you to endure this process, ensuring it doesn\u2019t break you.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s essential to experience this process without retreating or losing hope. 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